First Date Ideas
The purpose of a first date is NOT to spend a bunch of money. NOT to take her to the movies. NOT to do something boring. NOT to make her wish she had never come our with you, or worse, ever met you.
You don't want to set the wrong direction for any further dates either, by handling the first date the wrong way. This is a crucial concept that you HAVE to get down. If you open the relationship up by spending a lot of money on her, or by doing the same old stuff that every other guy would do, or things like that, you will NOT get far with the girl. And, the hotter she is, physically and mentally, the more that line moves back even closer to you, to the point of her just saying to take her home because your date is so boring. So, you HAVE to watch what you're doing right at the start.
So, below are some starter ideas. We'll build from there.
Mini-golf: What's not to like about this first date idea? You have PLENTY of opportunity for kino AND for all around fun. You can neg her, joke with her, DHV yourself if you're good at it, and show her your confident and comfortable with yourself.
Shoot pool: Much the same advantages as the Mini-golf. Both are usually cheap as well.
Starbucks: If you order yourself a water, this one can be cheap as well, and gives you plenty of time to talk, tell stories, DHV yourself, get to know her.
Park: If the weather is warm, this is a beautiful option. Outdoors, green grass, trees, You can throw frisbees, play volleyball, play tennis or basketball if those courts are available. Plenty of opportunity for kino, again, and for joking around. You can bring an appetizer or some snack too. And, you can see her in a summer dress or shirt skirt. What more can you ask for?
Mall: Walking the mall is free. And you can bounce from store to store, getting to know her, what she likes and dislikes, neg her, DHV yourself, more opportunity for kino.
Bar: If you both are old enough to go to a bar, you can sit and have a couple of drinks. You can get to know each other a bit, if there's a dance floor, you have much room for kino.
Musuem: These are usually free, or by donation. There are plenty of topics to talk about. Plenty of opporunity for building kino, for having fun, negging her.
Zoo: Walking time. Picture opportunities. Kino opportunities, holding hands while walking. Make fun of each other around the animals, neg her. All kinds of cool stuff can happen here.
Walk on beach/river front: Walking, holding hands, talking about each other, watching the water, the sunset if walking at that time. Feeling the breeze coming off of the water. And free.
Bowling: Kino opps, neg opps, general joking around, and usually cheap.
Wine tasting: I personally don't know much about this one, but have been told it's a good one.
Skating: Cheap, especially if you have your own skates. Good excersice. GREAT opps for kino. For negging.
Ice Cream Shop: Who doesn't like going to get ice cream? Time for talking, some kino. Cheap.
Botanical Gardens: Again, I don't know anything about this one personally, but have been told it's good.
Board game: If you can make her feel comfortable enough to join you at your place for the first date, and you're not in seduction yet, break out a board game and have some fun, great EC, kino, negging. Free. Or, take the board game to the park.
Card game: Same as above with board game.
Hiking: Doesn't matter if you're an avid outdoors person or not, you can both go hiking on trails in parks. Great opps for kino, cheap if not free, time to talk, get to know each other, etc.
Volunteer: Volunteer for some local event, or for some local charity. You'll give your time for free, but have opps for kino and joking around, getting to know each other.
Ice Skating: Usually cheap, especially if you have your own skates, and as with the other skating, PLENTY of kino opps, negging opps, general fun times and getting to know each other.
Decorate together, for the season: Have her to help you put up some seasonal decorations. You'll have great fun together, you'll see her creativity and she'll see yours, and great opps for kino.
Fly kites together: Hmmm, windy days, warm weather, blue skies, kite's flying, kino opps . . . need I say more?
Dance in the street together: Taken directly from the movie "The Notebook". Take the girl out into the street, turn some music on in your car, and start dancing. Simple as that.
Create a scavenger hunt for her: How much cooler can you get than setting up your own personal scavenger hunt for her to complete, in order to get a prize at the end?
Feel free to add more ideas to this thread. That's what it's here for.
Just keep in mind the "guidelines" we're going by. CHEAP if not free, opps for fun, opps for kino, opps to get to know each other, and DIFFERENT things. Not the same old date stuff that every AFC does.
Second Date Ideas
As you and your girl are sitting down, either eating or drinking, at some cafe or whatever, you take a straw out of it's wrapper and get her to play a little game with you. You lay the straw on the table and blow it across to her. You have her to blow it back to you. You can even get competitive with it and see who can "out blow" the other person. It's fun, whether it sounds like it or not, lol.
